A Hot Summer With Cool Memories ~ by Founder & President Emlyn Lee

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China, Emlyn's Expressions, Guatemala, Summer Camp Counselor, teach, Volunteer, Work

There are lots of things to see and do in China and Guatemala, yet I feel my highlights on these trips were meeting and traveling with Cultural Embrace participants. I talk to our participants regularly on the phone or via Skype. We email, tweet, and thumbs up each other behind a computer screen. I may even get a few encounters of people that stop by our Austin office, or meet them when I’m traveling domestically at a school fair or presentation. But traveling and seeing my participants experience our program in a foreign country (and China and Guatemala are both very foreign) makes all the long days and hard work worthwhile.

Cheers & Tears of Doing Business in China ~ by Founder Emlyn Lee

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China, Emlyn's Expressions, Summer Camp Counselor, teach

I’m en route back to the States, and writing this blog off-line as we just crossed the international date line. Working, living, and traveling in China is like a time capsule within itself. It’s such a growing and developing nation, yet has so many backwards methods and beliefs. So, flying across the date line adds to the Twilight Zone experience since I departed Beijing at 8:55am on Friday, July 15, and will arrive in to Seattle at 5:18am on Friday, July 15^th.

After spending two weeks overseeing our Summer ESL Camp program I am filled with emotions that range from tired, excited, exhausted, exhilarated, motivated, spent, confused, and determined. Teaching English in China has been one of my ‘baby’ programs from the start of Cultural Embrace in 2002, but this was the first summer that we launched this Summer ESL Camp program; working with local government organized schools; and organized 20 teachers/counselors to serve and teach English for their summer camp program.

Plans and placements from my local partners changed constantly about a week before most of our Counselors’ departures. Explanations of a 90^thCommunist Party Anniversary, mis-marketing to recruit local Chinese students in designated cities, to delayed dates due to China’s high school entrance exam, encouraged me to buy the next flight to Beijing to be sure that everything was going to run smoothly. I organized the three days orientation and training, preparing the twenty Counselors to be more familiar with living, teaching, and working in China,

The highlight of this trip was traveling and meeting Cultural Embrace’s twenty Counselors. I unfortunately do not get to interact with our participants and rarely see them on the road. To my surprise, many of the Counselors had never traveled to China, let alone leave their home state, so major kudos to the adventurous at heart. I believe there is an unique quality of an individual who journeys to the Far East, as the language barrier, crowds, pollution, etc are so ‘foreign’.

I was a Communications major in university, and always embraced the courses that focused on intercultural communications and international relations. I find it fascinating how people think, communicate, work, and what makes our world go round based on our culture and societal influences. Growing up in a Chinese-American home, I am familiar with the indirect, ‘face value’ communication styles and work ethic that is norm for Asian cultures. I now know where I get my minimal shut eye needs as I would receive texts and phone calls, or be in meetings in the wee hours with my local suppliers trying to organize a new change of plans. Most stores, bars, and restaurants are open until the last customer leaves…which essentially could be 24 hours when you think of China’s population and there are people everywhere ALL the time. The country and people do not sleep.

I believe each day of our lives we are gifted with new experiences. An experience varies based on how an individual handles and embraces the situation. For the past two weeks, I developed a wrinkled forehead trying to figure out what was authentic and what was ‘saving face’ while working and communicating with my local suppliers and the school and/or government system; or how to fight the crowds, pollution, honking, and traffic getting on and off the subway system; or whether the delicious beef dumplings I ordered was really pork…or maybe some other animal.  But these fury brow moments would easily be relieved by the $10 body massages, laughs with the Counselors with a funny Chinese story, bellies filled with some delicious meals, encounters with some of the most loyal people that define strong work ethics and integrity, and seeing the amicable interaction between the locals and our Counselors. 

I never want to experience so many last minute operational changes again in my life, but I believe each day of my life is a gift. Perhaps these experiences gifted me the ability to be more patient, respectful, direct, assertive, forgiving, and grateful. A gift that allowed me to Discover the Similarities – Share the Differences. A gift that I would never exchange or return.

The True Experience of Independence Day - by Founder Emlyn Lee

7/5/201112:12:00 AM Link 0 comments | Add comment

China, Emlyn's Expressions, Summer Camp Counselor, teach

What a way to celebrate Independence Day. I unfortunately didn’t experience any fireworks in Beijing, but I had a ‘booming’ time spending it with our 20 Counselors for Cultural Embrace’s first full day of orientation for our Summer ESL Camp program. What a great group of spirited and motivated travelers. I normally don’t get the chance to meet our participants as they come from all over the world and go on various programs and destinations; but to put faces and names together with months of phone and email pre-departure communication was a true delight.

We have 8 females, 12 males, 5 Canadians and 15 Americans ranging from 17 to 68 years old on this program. Most of us started off the day with a stop to the ‘bao zi’ (steamed dumplings) kiosk next to the dormitories (fortunately air-conditioned) that we are staying at for orientation; and then made our way to a classroom down the street for our three days orientation. I started off the morning with an icebreaker, asking everyone to share where they were from, what they did back at home, why they joined this Cultural Embrace program, and what their objectives were to be in China. Then I moved on with two hours of informative cultural etiquette and Chinese mannerisms to get them familiar with the country, culture, and expectations of teaching abroad.

We took a lunch break and had four delicious dishes at a local restaurant before the infamous Chinese xiu xi (afternoon rest time). I don’t understand why the Americas don’t embrace this phenomenon. Most countries around his world take about two hours out of their afternoon to have a leisure lunch and rest in the middle of their day. So when in China, do as the Chinese! Plus, with the hot and humid weather, combined with jet lag and the previous night at the bars, everyone appreciated their afternoon chill time. Then back to orientation at 2:30pm for another two hours of Chinese cultural training discussing local currency, basic Chinese language, culture shock, and another team-building activity for the group to know each other better. 

One of my favorite things about human relationships is learning and growing from one another, and it proved true to me today. While I am giving my services and knowledge to lead, share, guide, and support my participants, I am receiving so much more in return.  There are no better ways to understand and relate to people than to be with them, share experiences, listen and talk together, and embrace one another. I am so grateful for this experience to teach, learn and grow from my participants. “Discover the Similarities – Share the Differences”

Know Before You Go to China ~ by Founder Emlyn Lee

6/29/20115:45:53 PM Link 0 comments | Add comment

China, Emlyn's Expressions, Summer Camp Counselor, Teach

Ni hao!  We have 21 Counselors and two Volunteers going teach in China this summer, and I'm getting some last minute emails and questions about packing, and thought a blog would be a great opportunity to address everyone's questions, and hope it helps you too...

Electrical Converter & Adapter:
If you plan to bring electronics (ie: camera battery charger, hairdryer, etc) you will need a converter/adapter, as not only is the currency different, but so are the plug/outlet.  Here is a good site that talks about global outlets: http://electricaloutlet.org/.  If you bring your laptop, most laptops have dual currency, but the plug needs to fit with Chinese outlets.

Laptop & Internet Access:
There is internet access at the schools at the office and computer lab. Your dormitory or hotel most likely will not have it. There are tons of internet cafes, etc throughout China. It is up to you if you wish to bring your laptop or not. If you are planning on traveling a lot before or after, I'd recommend not to if it's heavy and expensive. However, your belongings in your dorm or hotel at your teaching placement will be completely safe and secure, as you'll be able to lock up your room with your own private key.

Linens & Towels:
Your hotel and teacher's dormitory will have basic linens. Towels are available in the hotel, but not in your teacher's dormitory. Purchasing a towel in China is very inexpensive; or if you wish to bring a towel, you can always leave it behind if you go shopping.

Dress Code:
We suggest being 'smart casual'. It will be hot in China, and your classroom will have a fan (maybe a/c); but please dress respectably. No mid-drifts, short skirts or shorts, cut-off shorts, gym tank tops, etc in the classroom. Khaki shorts/pants, collared t-shirts, skirts, sundresses, etc are recommended. Sandals are professional looking shoes are recommended.

Roommates:
You will be sharing a room during our extended Beijing orientation for the Summer Camp program, and each location has different accommodations set-up so you may be sharing with a teacher of the same gender. 

Exchanging Money:
Money can be exchanged everywhere in China. Hotels (bad rates), banks (long lines) all accept USD, CAD, traveler's checks (bad exchange rate). Credit cards are widely accepted, but also check with your card's bank company if you have a foreign transaction fee. I personally feel ATMs are the best option (this is the card with the PLUS or CIRRUS on the back). I would use it differently than a 'debit' card in the States or Canada; but take out a chunk of cash (RMB 650 = ~US$100) and use it as cash. Check with your bank what your transaction fees are, but a $3-5/transaction is going to better than some of the hotel rates; and less time than banks. Cash advances with credit cards are doable, but check with your bank of the interest rate, transaction fees, etc.

What Do Things Cost:
Like most destinations and developing nation, China's streets are filled with commericalism. There is a wide range of hole in the wall cafes, street markets, and hostels to luxury boutique stores, hotels, and restaurants, with everything in between. You can get a delicious bowl of noodles or a jing (weight of a bit over a pound) of dumplings for about RMB20 (~$3) in most local cafes and restaurants (probably cheaper at a street vendor). There are McDonald's, Starbucks, and KFCs in every street corner, and their combo meals are about the same as what it costs in the States. I think. I'm not a big fast food or chain person, but ~US$5 for a burger, fries, and drink seems about right. Taxis should have their meters running, so be sure to get in one that works.

Water:
Drink only bottled, filtered, or boiled water.  Chinese are very conscious about the safety of their drinking water, so they usually boil or filter their water. If someone offers you tea, it usually is to the boiling point. But be on the safe side and drink bottled or filtered water.  Ice and 'cold drinks' are still uncommon for China, so while you will crave it in the hot summer season, the restaurants and hotels that have ice, are usually serving Westerners and foreigners to be filter water ice. 

Mobile Phones:
God bless America's phone system. We are one of the only nations that has it's own band system. I do not recommend using your home mobile number to call your friends and family. It will be expensive; and you should also 'deactivate' receiving incoming calls, voicemails, etc...as even if you don't talk, it will still use up mintues and charge you international rates.

If you wish to use your phone, you may need to call your phone carrier to have your phone 'unlocked' which means you can change out the SIM card.  Then, when you get to China, you can purchase a local SIM card, have a local China number. This SIM card will be a pay as you go, so you can top it up at kiosks, stores, etc. Receiving incoming calls does not use up minutes are your card; just outgoing calls and texts.  Your local rep can help you, and I'll be sure that Wallace helps you when you get to Beijing.

Other great form of communication is through SKYPE. If you don't have an account, consider it. www.skype.com.  If your friends and family have a SKYPE account too, you can talk and video chat for free on the internet.

Gifts/Knick Knacks:
Besides the fact that most things in the States and Canada are 'Made in China' (ha!), but if you wish to bring gifts or lil knick knacks to students or people that you befriend in China, it is a very nice gesture. With a limited budget, I would recommend bringing hometown goodies. Pins, buttons, stickers, postcards, handtowels, etc that represent your hometown, your University, etc. If your hometown specializes in a particular food or candy, cookbook, that may be nice if you have room.

Laundry:
There will most likely be laundry facilities at your dormitory. If not, there will surely be a full service laundromat (not laundry service with hotels...those are expensive) near your campus that you can drop off your clothes to be laundered and then pick it up. It is cheap and affordable.

Miscellaneous Suggestions:
If you plan to eat on the streets--ummm, YES, even though it's not part of Cultural Embrac'es program (and liability!) but c'mon, be the next Anthony Bourdain and have No Reservations :) my must packing suggestion is: Immodium AD & Pepto Bismol. Face it, you'll probably get Montezuma's Revenge at some point of your trip...it's part of the adventure :), but the tummy disagreement isn't necessarily bad food or cooking, but what your digestion system isn't used to (ie: spices, oils, etc)  If you know you have a weak stomache, you may want to get CIPRO antibiotics filled over the counter.

China is dusty, polluted, and it's summer time, hot, humid with a billion people, cars, etc. Unless you like to be "Pig-Pen," the dusty and dirty character from Charlie Brown, I recommend having hand sanitizers, wet wipes, tissues packs (easily found in China, but if you want soft tissues...bring your own), on you at ALL times. Get pocket size packs and fill 'er up!

Although these are easily found in China, it's always nice to have a small basic medical kit consisting of: bandages, ointment, rubbing alcohol wipes, aspirin, etc.

If you have more questions or suggestions, I encourage you to contact me or leave a message on the blog. 

Yi Lu Shun Feng!  (Have a nice trip in pinyin Chinese!)

United We Stand by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Emlyn's Expressions

I am still getting goosebumps reflecting and re-reading the text from Obama’s public statement that Osama Bin Laden was killed…

“On September 11, 2001, in our time of grief, the American people came together. We offered our neighbors a hand, and we offered the wounded our blood. We reaffirmed our ties to each other, and our love of community and country. On that day, no matter where we came from, what God we prayed to, or what race or ethnicity we were, we were united as one American family…”
The 9-11-01 attacks impacted Americans and the rest of the world in so many ways. There were the obvious physical changes such as sending our troops to Iraq and Afghanistan, increased airport security, restrictions of carry-on items, etc. There were mental setbacks to many Americans as a result of being violated and defenseless on our own soil. There were emotional changes that impacted many of us to take a deeper breath to understand the meaning of life.

September 11, 2001 was a pivotal turning point for my life. In fact, it was the catalyst of making me start Cultural Embrace. I was working in the hospitality and tourism field and many companies were nose-diving or shutting down doors as a result of cancelled trips due to the public’s fear of travel. On the contrary, I felt compelled to start a business that would help others regain the trust, love, compassion, and joy of humans, cultures, and the ‘other world’. I wanted to create opportunities for people to travel safely and to be exposed to the authentic lifestyles abroad by immersing them within the communities they are visiting. Traveling does not always have to be a Disney moment yet there are plenty of ways to experience the 'magical' moment because…it is a small world after all. 

Now that we have reached a monumental turning point with the death of Osama Bin Laden, where does that leave us? I’ll leave the politics, military defense, and global economics to the world politicians; but for me and my vision…it drives me to continue to serve others so we are able to learn to embrace one another and our various cultures so that we may create a global community. Discover the Similarities – Share the Differences.

And what better way to end my thoughts than through the concluding words of President Obama…

"And tonight, let us think back to the sense of unity that prevailed on 9/11. I know that it has, at times, frayed. Yet today's achievement is a testament to the greatness of our country and the determination of the American people…But tonight, we are once again reminded that America can do whatever we set our mind to. That is the story of our history, whether it's the pursuit of prosperity for our people, or the struggle for equality for all our citizens; our commitment to stand up for our values abroad, and our sacrifices to make the world a safer place. Let us remember that we can do these things not just because of wealth or power, but because of who we are: one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.” 

Happy vs. Obedient by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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I have read dozens of books, blogs, and Oprah magazine articles on this subject; watched movies and documentaries addressing this theme; taken workshops at spiritual retreat centers to discover the meaning; and discussed this topic with most of my close friends and family members to share an opinion or two. What am I talking about?...of course, the meaning of happiness. 

Sorry, this blog is not intended to define what happiness means. I wish I could. But according to Wikipedia, "Happiness is a mental state of well-being characterized by positive emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. A variety of biological, psychological, religious, and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources." 

Yet how do we measure happiness? How would we react if there was some formula that could measure it? Would we be happier knowing where we are compared to others on the happy scale? Or be more competitive? But then who would we be measuring and comparing it too? I often think of the impoverished areas that I have visited around the world and what drives me to travel and serve others. For example, the villages that I recently visited for Cultural Embrace's HUG projects in Guatemala and South Africa are so poor with very little resources yet the people and children seem happier in comparison to a general community in the States. 

Happiness means different things to different people. Some people are happy with consumed goods like cars, jewelry, homes, clothes, shoes, food, wine, etc; some people only need their family and loved ones; some embrace happiness through spirituality; some through activities (ie: sports, music, arts, traveling, etc). Do we need it all? A little bit? A lot? 

I guess we should only grade our happiness within our own scale and terms. I am learning that I am happiest when I am obeying God’s direction. There are times that I slip up and make mistakes to think that God wants me to be ‘happy’ versus ‘obedient’. Yikes, it happens. It’s called being human. Y’know, those times when we rewrite the rules and think that God’s answering our prayers, and then realize…it’s actually an act of self-interest. No way?!...Not me!...Then who?

Like everything else in life, to obey and listen to God takes patience and practice…even God’s will. I wish it was as distinctive as hearing James Earl Jones’ voice in the Lion King; or having Morgan Freeman appear like in Bruce Almighty. But until I am able to tune out all the noise, distractions, and voices (especially my own), I will do my best to listen and obey God’s direction. 

Cupid Shoots and Scores! by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Emlyn's Expressions, Love, Spain

Love comes in all shapes, sizes, forms, and ways. And it comes when you least expect it. This month's theme is focused on "Love" and I've been featuring current, past, and future participants that have put a special accent on the word 'embrace' of Cultural Embrace! ;) And since it's Valentine's Day, I thought it would be appropriate to feature a participant that found her love, while on a Cultural Embrace program, studying Spanish in Spain. 

Meet Kimya. I remember working with her to organize a meaningful "break" from her busy professional work and personal schedule in 2006. She wanted to go abroad to learn Spanish, and we set her up to do just that in Barcelona. In Barcelona, she met a Norwegian, Morten, who was struck by her wonderful American charm. She extended her stay in Spain, and then the two maintained a long-distance relationship after she returned back to the States. With a few visits in between, the two got married in Punta Cana in December, 2007. Morten relocated and moved to New York, and last fall, they adopted a beautiful little girl! The whole family continues to travel and embrace many cultures! :)

Enjoy this little Q&A session with Kimya, because you never know where, when, and how Cupid will hit you with his love arrow!

1. How did you meet on your Cultural Embrace program, and how long have you been together? 
Since i was in Barcelona during the winter, things were a bit less active than spring and summer. I joined a downtown gym with a friend to fill the afternoon hours. My now husband spotted me in a yoga class. (he says he liked the view)

2. Were you nervous getting in to an international relationship, and how did you deal with the long distance? Not really, I was a little slow on an the uptake and did not realize we were dating for several weeks. By the time I did, I had to make a decision to extend my stay to see where the relationship went or go home as planned. Ultimately I decided to extend my trip a few weeks. By the time I left in early spring we had a plan to visit each other and return to Barcelona in the fall to live. But he came to visit me in the States a few weeks later and decided to move to the States instead. A few weeks later he proposed and by the end of the year we were married. There were a few months between the spring and fall which were long distance dating (he in Norway, where his is from and me in the states), but since we were both committed to the relationship it wasn't very stressful, just more of a waiting game. We used a lot of skype and I left work promptly at 5 everyday (to catch him before he went to sleep).
 

3. How did (do) you overcome cultural differences? 
We met each others families and friends early on that laid a good foundation. I corrected his english grammar everyday (still do). We always explain differences, ideas and beliefs to each other and just accept our differences. We still travel a lot so we are used to always begin exposed to different cultures. That has become our norm.

4. How are you managing to raise your family, and are you able to travel and visit Spain a lot?
We adopted a beautiful baby girl last October. Since we adopted we were able to plan ahead and discuss our parenting styles, which luckily are similiar. We agreed from the start that travel would be as much a part of our daughter's life as it is for ours. In her 15 months thus far she has been to Chicago, the Olympics in Vancouver, Norway, a Caribbean Cruise, St. Croix, St. Thomas and Tortola in the British and US Virgin Islands and Washington, D.C. Next up a road trip from San Francisco to San Diego and in a few weeks we are taking her back to where it all began in Barcelona. We love having a new person with whom to experience the joys of travel.
 

5. Do you have any advice for others to find love while traveling abroad? 
My advice for finding love anywhere has always been don't look for it. We both found love because we were following our individual dreams and just being ourselves.

6. Do you have any advice for being in an international relationship? 
Communication is a challenge in any relationship. When you have a native language difference it helps to be willing to over explain and ask the other person what they heard. Other than that just enjoy learning about all of the cool experience your mate had growing up in another culture.
 

 

Love and China Part 2: Q&A with Luan by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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China, Emlyn's Expressions, Featured Participants, Love, Teach

This is the second part of a two-part blog series that I started yesterday, to highlight current, past, and future participants that have either found love abroad, or are traveling or will be traveling with their loved ones on a Cultural Embrace program. Since it is Chinese New Years today (Happy Year of the Rabbit!), I thought it would be appropriate to feature two couples teaching English in China.

Today’s featured participant is Luan Lierman. I knew her as Luan Ly when I started working with her to organize her teach placement in China. Now, three years later, she is still in China, independently tutoring, learning Chinese, and working on couple of side businesses. She recruited her husband, Van, and current Cultural Embrace participants, Robin and Jeff (who were featured in the first blog)to join her in seaside Yantai, China, and even got married to Van in China. I hope you enjoy this Q&A with Luan, the same way that I am always delighted to receive email updates from her, since she has embraced the cultures in many facets of her life. 
 

Q: Why did you go abroad alone while you were engaged to teach in China? How long were you dating before you left China? 
A: Van and I got engaged in January 2008, the start of my senior year of College. We had planned to get married that summer after graduation, and of course plans change. Half way through the year, every Senior wonders what the next step will be. At this time, I wasn’t sure what I was going to do so I applied for all kinds of positions thinking something might work out. It isn’t easy for a fresh out of College to find a job, a decent job in my field of International Business anyways. With not many opportunities in Washington, I really wanted to travel abroad. What a better place than China. I had taken a year of Chinese in College so I knew the basic but I needed the environment to improve my fluency. That’s when I went online and typed in “jobs in China.” About 99% were all teach in China positions. I knew I wasn’t prepared or had any experience in teaching, but I love trying new things so it was a leap of faith. 

After applying to several organizations, one being Cultural Embrace, I just waited for a reply. A couple weeks later I received a call from CE and they wanted to interview me for a teaching job in Yantai, China. I had no idea where Yantai was and at this time, I had only 3 months before I would depart. I talked to my fiancé at the time and said I was going to China for 6 months minimum, which was the contract. He told me that he found a temporary job in California, making wine. We were both excited and this is our time to explore the unknown. Of course this wasn’t easy and we had to think long and hard but finally we decided to do what we loved. I would go to China and he would go to Napa Valley. At this time, we had post-pone our wedding date to the following summer which felt wonderful. The pressure of planning and marriage was lifted off my shoulders. We both felt good about it. And this time will allow us to grow independently since we were together throughout College. We had been together for over 4 years. 

Q: Were you nervous having a long distance international relationship, and how did you deal with the long distance?
A: Long distance relationships are never easy. I hate it! The longest long distance we did was about 3 months when I studied abroad in China my junior year. That was actually one of the main reasons why I wanted to come back to China. During the studied abroad trip, my Chinese language ability improved tremendously. All I needed was to be in China. Needless to say, we didn’t like being apart but what can you do when two people have different wants and dreams. That’s why marriage is not easy but you go into the promise with the hope that love will lead the way. 

Q: How did your experience in China change when your fiancé came to teach in China too? 
A: When Van came to visit me in December, I was more than thrilled. It had been almost 4 months since I last saw him. He came on a 1 month tourist visa thinking he was going to hang out in China and then head to New Zealand for more wine making. That was the plan, and plans change. He decided to stay with me and earned more money in China than he would if he went to New Zealand. Money unfortunately was a main priority since we were planning on getting married that summer, 2009. 


Before Van came, I cried the first couple weeks I was in China. Not because I didn’t like being in China, but I was alone and teaching was overwhelming. I arrived in late early Sept. when I was supposed to be there in late August due to visa delay and complications. School started that first week of Sept. as well. I came on the 5th and school started on the 6th. Yup, not a whole lot of time to adjust. I made it through that first week with the thought of, “oh boy, what did I sign up for?” But then I told myself, “you can do it Luan!” I had met some friends during the first few weeks and we were in the same boat. Molly and Jack were also recent College graduates and decided to try China for a year. Molly was my maid of honor and Jack was Van’s best man in our China wedding. 


Van deciding to stay in China made my decision easy as well. I extended my contract to one year. Now, we’ve been in China almost 3 years. Time flies when you’re having fun. =)


Q: Tell us about your wedding in China, and was it a culture shock to you and spouse?
A: Our wedding in China was perfect. It was perfect because our apartment we moved to happened to be right next to a Christian church. We did not plan that. When we switched schools for the second semester so we could teach together, we moved downtown. We worked with a private tutoring center which gave us great accommodations, but we didn’t stay too long since our schedules were not ideal. 


Anyways, Van and I lived together in this apartment and our family back home wanted us to see if we could sign a marriage license before we starting living together. To please them we looked around, and even contacted the embassy of in Beijing to see if we could get a marriage license since our wedding was scheduled for July 25th,2009 in Washington. Well, it was useless. Two foreigners in China can’t get legally married in China. One of the many laws in China. So, it was Feb. and the one thing we could do is have the wedding ceremony at the church. We set the date for April 25th,2009. That gave me two months to plan and with the help of some Chinese friends, it was more than I had expected. 


We had a pastor that only spoke Chinese so we asked our friend Jack, a Chinese English teacher, to translate the ceremony. He was delighted to. My friend Brenda helped me arrange all the flowers, decorations, camera/video man, and pretty much for my right hand woman. She was amazing. I’m so thankful for all my friends I’ve made met in China. 


On the wedding day, everything was set to go. Brenda’s daughter Lorraine was our flower girl. Jerry, one of my students was the ring barrier. Molly and Jack were ready to go with their new dress and suit. I had printed 300 programs and by word of mouth invited all my students and their families. At about 6pm, my uncle from Beijing walked me down the aisle and that’s when I saw the crowd. It was breathtaking. Van was waiting for me at the altar, and I walked down smiling at all our students and friends. Most of our international friends also came. England, Italy, Australia…etc. It was an international event. The whole thing was captured on video. Our students had never seen an American wedding before and for some, it was their first time in a church. We felt like celebrities since everyone had their cameras and taking pictures of us. My seamstress, Mrs. Yang and her son also came. She had custom made my husband’s suit, and Molly’s maid of honor dress. She is very talented. It was a perfect day!

Q: Do you have any advice for living and traveling abroad with your companion?
A: If you and your partner love adventure and meeting friends from around the world, go abroad. It was the best decision I’ve made, besides getting married to Van. He and I are grown in our relationship and our marriage. We study Chinese together and practice at home. Now, after 2 years, we can communicate in Chinese. I actually never thought that would happen. It’s fun to have a secret language when we go back to the US. Van finds China a fascinating place and the language very interesting. He even enjoys listening to Chinese music and tries to sing along. I haven’t ventured there yet. =)


Q: What are your anticipated future plans?
A: Since we’ve been in China, we have made the most of it. After planning two weddings, China and America, I might say I was experienced in the wedding biz. My friends back home wanted to know if I could help them with their wedding by getting dresses and tuxedos made in China. I was more than happy to help. This gave me the idea to start my own business. Luan’s Custom Made Wedding Attire. My friends find it so convenient and much cheaper to have the clothes made in China by the talented seamstress, Mrs. Yang. All I need is the picture of what you want made and your measurements. It’s that easy and hopefully more people will see the benefits in this idea. I’m having lots of fun and I’ve always wanted to start my own business. Never thought this would happen but where there is a will, there is a way. I’m extremely grateful.


For future plans, we go back to Washington every summer to see family and friends. We haven’t had enough of China yet so we’re coming back for more. But this time, we’re moving to Guangzhou. We have friends there and they really want us to join them. We also have invested in our friend’s cosmetics company and are now shareholders. It’s a risk, but we did research and signed legal contracts so with no risk, there are no rewards. Life is about risk, trying something new, going places and meeting people. That’s what makes life fun and worth living. I would not have it any other way. We will come back to America eventually, but not yet. What’s the rush? Well, maybe a future child. =) That time will come. 

The Gift Called Life by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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“Life is a gift. If you do not value your gift, nobody else will.” This message was attached to my Yogi tea bag string, ironically, on the eve of my birthday. I come from a family string of gifted sisters that have high achievements within their personal and professional community, yet somewhere along the gene pool, I never embraced science and math like two of my sisters, nor had much talent with music and arts like the other two. In fact, I had a really challenging time figuring out what to major in at college, and what to do career wise.

I love learning, discovering, and education in general, but being a student was not my cup of tea, so I quickly finished college in four years with a communications major. After working in the corporate world for about five months, I jumped off the conveyor belt we seem to mechanically get put on, and went abroad to teach English in China. Some may perceive this as escaping and procrastinating with responsibilities (it’s okay, these thoughts crossed my mind too, and it continues to bring a worry brow across my parents’ forehead), but living and traveling on a Chinese wage budget, buying groceries at the local street market, creating daily lessons to my college students, hanging socks to dry on an outdoor bamboo pole on the seventh floor, and making travel plans for weekend and holiday breaks brought me more ‘life’ skills than any textbooks, diploma, and staff meeting. 

After three semesters of teaching, I still wasn’t sure what my ‘calling’ was, yet life kept bringing me gifts of random opportunities. I ended up working as a cruise director on a river boat cruise along the Three Gorges on the Yangtze River, which introduced me to the hospitality and tourism field, where I managed and organized luxury tours all around the globe for three years. Getting a bit restless of over 900 days of international travel, I went back to teaching, and taught ESL and GED to at-need communities in Austin.

After all of these life and global experiences, I came to the realization that these are my gifts! People, cultures, equality, service, diplomacy, education, and travel are my skills set. I may not be able to discover vaccinations, or design jet engines, or be a concert pianist, or build office complexes, but I am capable of sharing my gifts to others. Cultural Embrace exists so we may introduce people to ‘Discover the Similarities and Share the Differences’. 

We all have different opinions, expectations, experiences, highs and lows with life. That, in itself, is a gift of being human. Our knowledge and skills at Cultural Embrace are to form the box to best fit your shape, and wrap it up with the appropriate ribbons and wrapping papers. Cultural Embrace’s goal is to bring additional value, so when you receive your package, you will untie the bow and open it to discover the beautiful gift called…LIFE! 

2011: Let's Embrace the Year! by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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It’s a new year…a new decade…a new start! Thus, the ideal time to review the past year, set goals for 2011, and vow to clean out old habits and make room for new ones. I love new beginnings, as it provides opportunity to change, make a new start, and have a fresh outlook on life. Yet for some reason, I put a twist on this year’s resolution. Instead of looking back at last year’s list and being hard on myself for not reaching all of my goals, I decided to take a different approach for 2011. I am making a conscious effort not to focus on everything that I wished I had, or wanted to be, or hope to become; but to take the time to appreciate the people, places, and things that have brought me to be who I am today.

I am not saying that I am giving up on goals. On the contrary, I think recognizing the positive influences in my life will motivate me to achieve more and reciprocate goodwill to others. I want to recognize the positive influences, and see the patterns and connections of the good things, versus life’s challenges, and continue to pursue that upbeat path in life. 

So let’s do a comparison test. Think: recession, rising oil prices, war, natural disasters, diseases, and lost luggage. This is just a short-list of things that have a huge influence on the travel industry. Unfortunately, most of these words are negatively perceived, and thus the major causes of why people don’t travel. These factors are out of my control, but if I reflect too much on them, and how it will impact Cultural Embrace and the travel business, I mine as well close shop now. Now rewind, and let’s think of eating delicious street foods, shopping at night markets, swimming with dolphins, $10 massages on the beach, laughing with children as they are trying to teach you some foreign phrases, and riding a bicycle in the Alps…I’m now grinning ear to ear! These are the things that I love to experience when I travel, and what motivates me to get you to take the plunge to visit a foreign country.

I guess the phrase ‘mind over matter’ is true. I have been blessed with a fortunate life, why not embrace it? I am healthy, have a rockin' family and friend base, traveled to over 75 countries, own a business, have clothes on my back and food in my belly. Heck, if you’re reading this, you’ve got it pretty good too. Vision, education, electricity, owning a passport, and internet are things that I took for granted. Not anymore. Thank you, merci, gracias, xie xie, obrigado. Wow, 2011 already feels great! 

Back to H.U.G. Guatemala for the Holidays by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Hola y Feliz Navidad! I’m back in Guatemala enjoying another Christmas in one of my favorite cities, Antigua. I decided to return back this year to check out our H.U.G. (Help Understand Give) Guatemala project, and to share this beautiful country and holiday season with my family and friends.

Although I usually travel alone or have a friend meet up while I check out or create new business developments for Cultural Embrace’s program, my oldest sister, Ann, brother-in-law, Bill, and 12 years-old niece and nephew, Michael and Alexa wanted to go on a meaningful vacation during the holidays. They currently live in a town right next to San Mateo, California (near San Francisco), so they thought it would be fitting to spend the holidays sharing it with children from our H.U.G. project in San Mateo, Guatemala (near Antigua). So this is a rare, yet very special treat to have my family join me on this holiday adventure. 

I have customized this trip a bit from our typical Volunteer in Guatemala week program, or our popular requested Group Travel itinerary, so we can have a family fun-packed week. We are spending the first 5 days in Antigua…one of the most charming cities in the world. It is foreign-friendly city, with cobble-stone streets filled with delicious restaurant, cafes, shops, and hotels; yet it still maintains the local Guatemalan culture (indigenous and modern) and charm.

Most of our participants take 4 hours of one-on-one Spanish lessons with our partnering language school in Antigua, and I was thrilled when Michael and Alexa agreed to take lessons during their ‘vacation’. We enrolled them for two hours of Spanish a day for the next three days which is perfect for younger children and their attention span…and they had a blast! I loved hearing that they had more fun and learned more Spanish in the first two hours than all the years that they have been learning Spanish since age 3 from day care years. And to be honest, their attitude and confidence in Spanish showed immediately after their first class, as they were trying to speak Spanish to the waitress.

Ok, I can go on and on, but it’s 7pm on Christmas Eve. I certainly don’t want to miss a meal in Antigua, as the restaurants and cafes are delicious and beautiful. And then will join the locals and celebrate Christmas by attending a service at the Cathedral located in the town square. Feliz Navidad to you and your loved ones! 

Five Senses of China by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Sensation is defined as: "an unprocessed result of stimulation of sensory receptors in the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, or skin." Perception is defined as: "one's ultimate experience of the world involving further processing of sensory input." If human's perception and experience are determined by our process to translate our sensory stimulation, then what is my perception of China? Let me use my five senses to share my experiences China.

Sight: There is a lot to see in China. Not only is it the most populated country in the world, but it is a diverse country too. You can see that China is economically busting at the seams. Skyscrapers and cranes dominate the cities. Cars, many of them luxury brands, dominate the highways and roads. Malls, plazas, and street vendors fill the streets, no matter what time of day or night. Some of the world's most marveled architecture (modern and historically) are found throughout China, yet farmlands, rice fields, pagodas and temples resembling the 'traditional' China are still prevalent throughout the nation. 

 

Sound: This is what I currently hear as I close my eyes: motorcycles, buses, trucks, and cars driving by; random car and truck honks; 2-3 people talking loudly (which is typical Chinese speaking volume); the water in the pipes from someone upstairs taking a shower; a guy hawking a loogie; TV from an apartment across the quad. It is Monday, after midnight, and my hotel room is facing inside a quad, off a busy street in downtown Guilin.
 

Chinese Opera Singer

Smell: Besides walking along a street vendor or restaurant cooking their delicious dishes, there probably aren't too many times you want to take a deep breath in of China. It's a polluted country, with little chance to smell the roses. But I have to admit, all the times I wrinkle my nose walking near bathrooms, train stations, supermarkets, smokers (who disregard blowing cigarette smoke in anyone's face), stinky tofu cooking...every time I return to China, these fragrances listed above are the familiar and 'refeshing' smell of Zhong Guo!

Taste: Leave your Sesame Chicken, General Tso Chicken, and Beef and Broccoli orders at home. Authentic Chinese cuisine ROCKS! Plus, each region has their own special flavor and cooking styles that ordering the same dish in Northern China may taste completely different than in Southern China. Take noodles for example, they look, taste, and are cooked differently within each province and region. Whether you like spicy, sweet, salty, soft, sticky, or crunchy textured foods, China has it all. There is a popular idiom referencing the way that Chinese eat...if it doesn't have 'table' legs, it will be eaten.


Touch: There are over 1.3 billion people that live in China, in an area smaller than the States. Face it, somewhere and somehow...you will probably rub elbows and shoulders with someone in China. Personal space doesn't really exist, and you often feel like you are on the most crowded bus, street corner, marketplace, or store in the world...which you probably are. I balance my frustration of pushy and crowded China with another touch sensory-Chinese massages. The Chinese are so good with foot reflexology and acupressure points. Okay, this may be a generalization, but most street corners have massage spas/parlors, with an hour massage costing only ~US$10! Just a simple $2 hair wash in salons includes a head, shoulder and back massage. I certainly am able to embrace this touching culture! 

Discover the Similarities... Share the Differences,
Emlyn
Founder of Cultural Embrace 

Greetings from Beijing, China by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Ni hao! Greetings from Beijing, China! I have been here for exactly one week, and FINALLY feel like my brain and body are working on the right time zone. I attended a 4 days conference for the youth travel industry, and will spend the next two weeks visiting our site projects for our Teach, Intern, and Volunteer in China programs, and work on some new business development. I'll definitely share more details and insight of my experiences here, and how I hope this visit will improve our programs and services to this fascinating destination.
 

I am giving the 'touristy' things to do in Beijing amiss, as I have been to Beijing numerous times, either as a tourist, or having lead group tours. So now, I get the pleasure to sit back and embrace the local culture. Ironically, I am sitting in a Starbucks, in the HouHai district, which is in the heart of Beijing's Lake District. I know, Starbucks isn't really a 'local' thing, and in fact, I avoid the green and white chains back in the States, but not only is this one of the only places that offers free wi-fi, but it's everywhere in Beijing, and dominated by Chinese and foreign people alike. In fact, I'm sitting next to three local young Chinese girls, sitting around their netbook watching videos, giggling, bopping their heads, and singing along to Eminem and Rhianna. At a table across from them, there are three young Westerners peering over each other's shoulders, looking at a Mac screen with earphones on. Do you think they could be listening to the same thing? Who knows, but for me, at this moment, this coffee shop is a true representation of how we continue to Discover the Similarities and Share the Differences. Whether through food, coffee, music, people and ways to spend a lazy, chilly, Saturday afternoon...that's no lie.

 

I Wish I May, I Wish I Might...Have the Wish I Wish Tonight by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Since my early twenties, if anyone ever asked me where my dream vacation would be, Seychelles would always come to mind. I’m not really sure why—-I never met anyone from there, or any visitors for that matter. It sounded so exotic, because it’s located so far far away…and that’s what dreams are supposed to be, right?

Well, pinch me...because I just returned back from visiting Seychelles! If you recall my earlier introduction to Liz & Dex, Liz works at the Four Seasons, and wanted to use her employee benefits at their Seychelles resort. Seriously…on this trip…which meant I got to go to Seychelles! And my accommodations were taken care of…suh-weeeet!! So off we went, Liz, Dex, and I bought round-trip tickets from Johannesburg, South Africa to Seychelles, to experience four-nights on a slice of heaven.

It’s sad to say, we didn’t see much of the island besides the drive from the airport to Four Seasons resort, which was located on the Southern tip of the Mahe Island. I know, I know, I own an experiential and immersion travel company that focuses on humanitarian and cultural aspects of a destination…so how could I have stayed in one of the world’s finest hotels and not explore and embrace the natural beauties of the rest of the island?

Um, take a look at the photos attached, and you will see why I didn’t leave the resort... http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=5549036&id=625928901#!/album.php?aid=225347&id=625928901

Need I say more? After four straight years of not going someplace or doing something that involves Cultural Embrace (in fact, come to think of it…it was another trip with Liz, when she invited me to a Four Season’s award trip to Hawaii…man, I have the greatest friend!) ‘shutting’ off for four days on a remote island in a luxury resort, without an agenda, meeting, or schedule, was justifiable, or more importantly, a necessity.

I have to admit, I fell short of my goal to not check my emails and reconnect with the ‘real world.’ But I proudly did not turn my netbook on, and discovered the library with two computers and internet access, I mean, c’mon, I had to try all of the facilities this resort had to offer, right? But my days consisted of hanging out at the beach, catching up on several books that had accumulated beyond piles back in Austin, snorkling, swimming, turning before I burn, ordering fresh mango coladas, and joking around with the resort staff. I think the hardest decision of our time there, was whether to wade in the resort pool, or return back to our private pool in our villa.

I often write and set goals for myself, sometimes a bit far-fetched that they should be defined as dreams. But for me, goals are essentially dreams with deadlines, and you never know, like my visit to Seychelles, dreams do become a reality! 

Cultural Embrace's Volunteer in Eastern Cape, South Africa Projects by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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You can fly in to East London (quick 1-1.5 hours from Capetown and Johannesburg respectively), or do what Liz, Dex, and I did on this trip and drive up, or take one of our partnering hop-on, hop-off buses, which takes you along the breath-taking Garden Route and Sunshine Coast. Cultural Embrace’s local coordinator, Mike, and his crew will pick you up from the airport or bus station, and take you to your volunteer lodge. Housing is included, yet varies depending on the project, occupancy level, and season, but are clean, comfortable, and exceeds my expectations. All meals (delicious by the way, with plenty of fresh fruit) are included, and are able to meet special dietary and allergy requests. Private ground transportation is included to transport volunteers to and from your project site and accommodation, as well as any cultural and social activities that volunteers opt to do over the weekend. However, many volunteers choose to walk to their project sites since it allows them a chance to exercise, walk on the beach, and it’s very safe. I visited each project’s sites and housing, and they are awwwesome! I’ll write a brief description about the volunteer and housing arrangements in paragraph form.

Schools Projects-we are working with three local schools to help fundraise and facilitate a computer literacy program. Small computer labs have recently been built, and Mike (who has degrees in education and English) has created a full curriculum to teach the students computer skills matched with life skills. If you are fond of sports, there is an Interactive Sports Development project, where you will train, coach, and play with the children at school. We are trying to encourage health, nutrition, and exercise at a young age. Group sports like football/soccer, basketball, and other team-building games are taught.Creche Projects are equivalent to at-need nursery schools and preschool education back in the States. Many of the local crèches are not meeting the standards enforced by the Ministry of Health (usually because no one is enforcing them), so we need individuals and groups to volunteer in maintenance, renovations, painting, gardening, cleaning, playground building, and other fun and rewarding physical work. All volunteers will live in a lovely volunteer home that overlooks the water. Double and triple rooms are available, with shared bathrooms, kitchen, patios, living and dining room. Self-catered breakfasts and lunches are included, and family style dinners are prepared daily.

Jeffrey's Bay and the Sunshine Coast by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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But let me back up one night, where we spent the night in Jeffrey’s Bay of the Eastern Cape. Although the Eastern Cape is probably the poorest of South Africa’s nine provinces, I would have never known from the lush topography and climate; and the beautiful homes, lodges, and hotels along the beaches. Jeffrey’s Bay, known as ‘J-Bay,’ is now one of the world’s top surfing destinations. Surfers from all around the world flock here to ride the waves.

I’m not a surfer, but the tides were pretty mellow this morning due to the cold front and offshore winds, so Liz and I just took a nice walk along the beach. We were admiring the beautiful homes along the coast, and discovered these weird looking jellyfish washed up on shore. They were these large blobs of goo and jelly, without tentacles, and looked like something out of Ghostbuster. When we returned back to our accommodations, I asked our receptionist if there was a local church service, and there was one not far from where we were located.

One of the lodge staff escorted Liz and I over to the local church. It was in the backyard shed of a home, and there were two local ladies with a baby waiting at the shed door. A few minutes later, an older man, wearing a white and blue robe, came out with a bowl of water and red rope. He dipped the end of the rope in the bowl, and splashed water on our hands and body, and asked us to turn around and repeated the splatter to our backs. We entered in to this small, rusty, shed turned church, and it was filled with energy, spirit, drumming, singing, and dancing.

Let's Raise our Glass and Toast to South African Wine & Stellenbosch by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Is there anything more perfect than spending an April Friday with blue skies and mild weather in the wine region of South Africa? I guess if you add visiting five vineyards, two great friends, a cheese platter, and Dex designating himself as our driver, yup, that pretty much sums up a day of perfection!

Welcome to Stellenbosch! It is only 45 minutes East of Cape Town, which makes an easy day trip. However, we decided to spend the night in Stellenbosch the night before, not because we were lushes, but to get a different experience and vibe of the area. Stellenbosch is a small and idyllic town, with a Dutch colonial charm. People were friendly, relaxed, and had a very pleasant disposition about them. It almost seemed like a village, with streets lined with cafes, restaurants, banks, shops, and I didn’t notice any buildings taller than three stories. Stellenbosch is nestled in the valley surrounded by rolling hills and mountainous backdrop—absolutely stunning!

This region is also best known as the home of South African’s largest wine and spirit production. It is also the oldest wine route in South Africa, drawing wine lovers and tourists from all around the world. So here I am! There are more than 100 wineries open to the public, all within easy reach of the town center.

We chose five vineyards to visit today. The first one was Beyerskloof, it was a contemporary vineyard with themes of love, peace, and celebration. Walking upstairs there was a beautiful reception area with lavender couches and chaise lounge chairs. It was a small vineyard, with about 8.5 hectares, and about 5000 vines per hectare. We went down to the testing room, which continued it’s modern art deco theme. We tasted ten different types of wines that are produced in Beyerskloof for 20 Rands (~US$3), and given a description of the grapes, production and what foods would best match the wine. This vineyard was known for Pinotage—a grape found uniquely in South Africa area. One bottle that caught my attention was ‘BEE’, which stood for Black Economic Empowerment, in which 70% of the shares are distributed to the black workers.

We then went to Morgenhof, a vineyard consisting about 70 hectares. It was a colonial style vineyard that had a beautiful layout, however, it felt too old fashioned and ‘Gone with the Wind’ for me. We had about 5 different wine tastings, and then moved on to Vrienshof Vineyards. We met the owner, who was also hosting a birthday party for his six years old grandson. And our wine hostess informed us that he essentially is the ‘pioneer’ with Pinot Noir and Pinotage in Stellenbosch, since he introduced this relatively hard to grow grape in South Africa over 45 years ago. The winery had a nice piece of land, which the birthday party had taken over, and it was lovely to taste delicious wine, hear the descriptions of the grapes and the way they were produceded, and watch the birthday boy and his friends play a mixed game of soccer and rugby.

The fourth vineyard was Ernie Els. He is South Africa’s top professional golfer. It was by hands down one of the most beautiful wineries that I have ever been to. The patio of the restaurant overlooked terraced gardens, rolling hills, jagged mountains, which seemed like a backdrop out of a movie scene. Fourty-five hectares of mountain slopes are exclusively planted to red varieties. We ordered a fruit and cheese plate, and tried five more glasses of wine, and just relished in the afternoon sun.

We scurried over to Rust en Vrede before the winery closed at 5pm, so we could check out the spot where two of Dex’s friends got married. It was a lovely place, with a beautiful garden, and were greeted by a friendly Golden Retriever and Rottwelier. This “estate of mind” consists of thirty-eight hectares of red varieties, and is known as the first South African property to specialize in the exclusive We tasted four more glasses of wine, and then began our journey along Highway N2 along the East coast of South Africa.

All in all, it was a spectacular day. We tasted some amazing wines, visited some beautiful vineyards, and enjoyed the company of friendly and hospitable South Africans. 

Meet Liz and Dex by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Who you travel with is as important as where you are traveling. Let me introduce you to my two traveling companions, Liz and Dexter. Liz and I have known each other since 1997, when we were workmates at a luxury travel company based in St. Louis. We were housemates for about a year in 1999, and have been dear friends ever since. She currently resides in New York City, although she spends about 60% of the year abroad as a sales manager for Four Seasons Hotel & Resorts. Through the years, we have shared personal explorations through Honduras, Belize, Hawaii, and many other cities across the States, and visit each other in Austin or New York at least once a year. Dexter is a good friend of Liz’s in NYC, who I had met once before at Jazzfest in New Orleans in 2001. He has been traveling in and out of Africa for long stints at a time for the past fourteen years, and is interested in opening up a resort in Northern Mozambique.

When it comes to traveling with others, you have to find a good balance of personality, respect, trust space, communication, and humor. The three of us are seasoned travelers, and connected very quickly and easily to each other’s traveling style. South Africa is a slower paced country than what we experience in the States. While we may bite our tongues at the slower and less efficient service at a hotel check-in, or the lukewarm water in the sink, or the paper think toilet paper, it’s part of the beauty of traveling. It provides time for one to take a deep breath, slow down, and embrace the culture, and on the flipside, allows one to appreciate the efficiencies back home.

The great thing about traveling with Liz and Dex is that they are even keeled people. They are full of energy, yet low maintenance and roll with the punches, whichever direction they come. Additionally, I enjoy their sense of humor, which is very important when you are traveling. They crack jokes and can be a wise-ass to me, yet be the first to laugh at their own tumbles. We enjoy doing things off the beaten path, prefer the less crowded bar than the loud, popular, overcrowded clubs, aren’t huge history or museum buffs, and have a good sense of street smarts. For example, I feel comfortable leaving my personal belongings with them, knowing that they will not flake and be wise enough to cover my back.

We have similar appetite and thirst levels, and are sharers when it comes to food. This is huge for me! The Asian in me comes out at feeding time, and perhaps this explains why Chinese restaurants use Lazy Susans, or why we serve PuPu Platters…to share! There is nothing more discouraging to me, when my tablemates won’t share dishes at meals. I love food! I can’t select just ONE dish in my favorite restaurant back in Austin, let alone one choice in a foreign country staring at a new menu. Let’s order a variety of dishes, so we can try more things together!

Sorry, I often get sidetracked with the topic of food…but not only is it nice to share food, wine, and laughs when you are traveling with friends, but you can also rehash your stories with them when you return home. Although you will share your traveling tales and photos to your friends and family; your traveling companions will be the only ones that can relate to your adventure, and get the inside jokes. They are the ones, like you, that have explored and experienced the world first-hand. 

Counting Sheep on South African Airways by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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I’ve lost my sleeping mojo…I used to have the ability to fall asleep before taking off on any flight, and wake up just about the time when the flight attendants come by to remind us to put our tray tables away and to put our seats back to their upright position. I was really looking forward to some shut eye during this flight, since I just spent three weeks busily on the road recruiting Cultural Embrace along the East coast, and pulled a few late nighters trying to get as much work done before this trip. But for some reason, I’m on my second movie, typing up this blog off-line, and restlessly awaiting to land so I can stretch my body.

I am flying on South Africa Airways to Cape Town, and even though there is nothing appealing about flying ~17 hours including a stopover in Dakar, Senegal, and then a layover in Johannesburg, l am impressed with their flight crew, aircraft, and service. Although I am not a hard critic when it comes to transportation, I have been in the travel & service industry for over 14 years and know the difference of quality of service. C’mon, there really is nothing peachy about getting to and from a destination. I think the tribulations from traveling happen, so that we can appreciate the destination that much more once we get there.

I have taken every mode of transportation known to mankind--from the chicken buses in Peru, to propeller flights in Zimbabwe, to the Orient Express in Australia, to boats and cruises along the European waterways, to a Flying Pigeon bike in China, to a hot air balloon across the Serengeti, to an elephant ride through Nepal, to the Concorde across the Atlantic Ocean—I’ve accumulated frequent travel miles in some shape and form. It’s not the way I got to the destination, but the destination itself. It’s the people, the music, the food & drinks, the sites, and the experience (including the transportation) that I seek to discover when I travel. Now that my grandmamma knees and back are agitatedly questioning when we will get there…they’re just the reminders to make me anticipate and embrace being in South Africa so much more. Three hundred twenty-four thousand six hundred seventy two sheep…three hundred twenty-four thousand six hundred seventy three sheep…three hundred twenty-four thousand six hundred seventy four sheep… 

All Aboard - Good ole American Style! by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Since I grew up in the metro DC area, and love New York, I'd cruise up and down I-95 with friends, family, Peter Pan, and Greyhound. While you can't beat road trips with friends and family, and always have random stories riding on Greyhound or Peter Pan buses, I wanted to share a new enjoyable way of getting between these two great cities. Tripperbus.com, a fairly new bus shuttle service that offers wi-fi, electrical outfits, and cordial drivers that are articulate on the microphone.

Who would have thought that I would be writing a blog, checking Facebook, and sending out work emails, while going through the Baltimore Harbor Tunnel? This brings a whole new meaning to multi-tasking!

I just did a whirlwind business trip along the East coast the past five days, promoting Cultural Embrace from Maryland to New Haven, CT and return via a night stopover in New York City last night. I was debating whether to hire a car, thinking that it would give me more freedom and accessibility to see and do more things with my limited schedule. On the contrary, I think I saved more time, money, and stress taking these public transportation. I was able to work while traveling, enjoyed the scenic drive, met strangers on the train and bus, and reduced my stress level battling East Coast traffic.

I first took the Amtrak (amtrak.com) train from Maryland to New Haven, CT. I have ridden trains across China, Vietnam, Europe, Australia, yet never embraced Amtrak in my own country. But am jazzed about my wonderful experience. From the clean carts, to electrical outlet access to keep my laptop juiced up, to the friendly conductors, and timely schedule, I am All Aboard the public transportation system that we have in our own backyard. 

Heartpangs for Africa by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Emlyn's Expressions, Kenya, Volunteer

There is something about Africa that warms my soul. As a young girl, I was always fascinated by National Geographic magazines, PBS television series, and readings we had in school about African countries and culture. I would always do (and still do) a double-take when I see African art, get warm and fuzzies when I hear stories about humanitarian work to save Africa, bop my head around when I hear African drumming and tunes. Although each region has it's distinct style, the rhythmic beats, vibrant artwork, and stories infectiously lighten up my spirit, and allows me to embrace the continent from afar.

But then, I scored one of the best jobs in the world, and managed the operations of luxury tours around the globe. Year after year, I would submit my request form to this far, foreign, and fascinating continent. The Okavango Delta, Kalahari desert, Kenya, South Africa, and Egypt always topped my "wish list," along with every other colleague in my office. Fortunately, by 1998 my wishes came true with seniority, and a few cartons of Dunhill cigarettes to the travel staff manager--haha just friendly (and unhealthy) reminders to my former boss.

Even though I have visited Southern, Eastern, and Northern Africa several times, my love and interest to Africa never wanes. I am thrilled and blessed to have an opportunity to return back to South Africa in about two weeks. This time, I will meet and work with the communities we partner with at Cultural Embrace. I will get a chance to truly integrate with the people and the communities, like how you will experience it on one of our volunteer, internship, and group programs.

I welcome you to join me and Cultural Embrace, as we dedicate the month of April featuring Africa programs and travel tips. I will be reporting about my experiences and site visits to our South African projects and placements, and invite you to join a C.E. volunteer, Tracy Guthrie, who is currently volunteering at our Kenyan orphanage.

For those that are still dreaming of Africa, we hope to whet your appetite to go explore her someday soon. If you have already visited, then I'm sure you can positively attest the natural beauty and rich culture of this exotic continent, and hope the travel bug continues to itch with stronger heartpangs for Africa. 

Embracing the Culture called Social Media by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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The time has come for me to bite the bullet and embrace...social media. You would think for someone that started a business, enjoys writing, and thrives off of connecting people to life-rewarding experiences, I would relish off of this phenomenon. Unfortunately, I tend to live in the Flintstones age when it comes to technology, yet I will put the turkey leg down, ignore the 'would ofs,' 'could ofs,' and 'should ofs,' and move forward, to say...WELCOME, and THANK YOU for reading this!

My friends, family, staff, and clients frequently ask me where I am, what I am doing, and how to keep in touch. I travel a lot to promote Cultural Embrace, attend industry conferences, visit sites, meet partners, see friends and family. So hopefully through my blogs, Twitter, Facebook, and other social media tools, together, we are able to connect, learn, grow, and explore exciting life-rewarding experiences. I stress the word, together, because I want to hear what you have to say, and encourage you to share your opinions, questions, and feedback.

I want you to know what Cultural Embrace is all about. You deserve to feel comfortable with a company that is trying to make you feel at-ease with going abroad. I started Cultural Embrace in 2002 as a direct result of 9/11/01 attacks. My main drive was to initiate peace, cultural sensitivity, and to re-awaken the 'tourism' industry, but selfishly, I wanted to combine my passion and 'hobbies'--travel, education, helping others, with work. (I'm sure I will blog more about C.E.'s history later, so if you have any questions, please ask away.)

I may have a lot to learn about utilizing social media, but am excited to keep you informed of what is going on at Cultural Embrace. So here is to another adventure...one that doesn't entail a passport, a map, or guidebook; but practice, for it to become my new hobby. 

Getting your 'A' Game on Abroad by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Do you remember the brassy musical background and montage of sport clips and with Jim McKay narrating, “Spanning the globe to bring you the constant variety of sport… the thrill of victory… and the agony of defeat…This is ABC's Wide World of Sports!”?

Even though I had seen the introduction hundreds of times, I would cringe each time I saw the ski jump fall, and hoped that the ABC’s producers would change the clip and have the skier make a successful jump. Couldn’t they just surprise the viewers with two thrills of victories once in awhile?

But the melodramatic introduction still resonates within me, especially during these past two weeks watching the Winter Olympics hosted in Vancouver, Canada. I’m a HUGE fan of the Olympics--winter or summer—bring it on! It’s a chance for us to “span the globe” and to come together in the commonality of peace, passion, and athleticism.

I was never an ‘athlete’ per se, but have always enjoyed sports and like to be active. In fact, I considered going in to sports management in college, until I worked at the (then) Capital Center in Landover, MD (home of the (again, then) Washington Bullets and Georgetown Hoyas basketball teams), but realized that I asked too many questions and didn’t want to change the color of my nose. However, the love of sports, recreation, and fitness has always remained in me.

Although the Olympic games in Vancouver are ending, I pass the torch on to you, to fulfill that burning desire and passion to learn and improve your athletic skills while traveling abroad. So to keep the Olympic spirit alive, we will spend the month of March featuring our sports and recreational activities that are available around the globe.

Our goals at Cultural Embrace are to integrate you within the communities that you are living, and staying active is no exception. Consider taking surf lessons in Costa Rica while you learn Spanish this summer, or take yoga lessons while volunteering at orphanages in India, or learn to dive while working in the Great Barrier Reef of Australia, the options are endless.

So here’s a chance to learn and improve a skill to all the athletes and fans in us. Click hereto take advantage of these activities as add-ons to a Volunteer, Internship, Work, or Teach placement, or contact our Programs Coordinator to discuss how you may enroll in a recreational course abroad.

Even if we are not Olympic podium bound, it’s time to let Cultural Embrace be your director, while you produce the most fun and exciting clips of your very own “Thrill of Victory” adventure. Now that’s the true spirit of Wide World of Sports! 

To Be, or not to Be by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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I just celebrated another birthday, and while I am totally amused, or perhaps confused, at the thought that I am in my “upper thirties”, I genuinely embrace each day and look forward to growing from the challenges life throws my way. Besides, does age really matter anymore? I mean, isn’t 60 the new 50, 50 the new 40, and so on?  And while I may be feeling the physical aspects of aging, I wholeheartedly embrace the spiritual, mental and emotional benefits of getting older and wiser.

I am constantly seeking out my life’s calling and purpose and would love to hear what you feel is yours.  Why do we often ask people, “What are you doing?”, but seldom ask ourselves and others, ”What are you being in life?” 

Through the years, I have developed more awareness of what my purpose is, and traveling has been a key factor of that discovery. I am a first generation Chinese-American. I was raised in an insular suburb in the United States, and until I graduated from college, I had never been abroad. I can still remember how excited and scared I was on my first trip out of the country (to teach English in China, no less) and how much that trip broadened my view of the world and my sense of connectivity in it. I haven’t looked back since that trip and have spent the past 15 years working, teaching, volunteering, and traveling around the globe.  Sight-seeing and learning about local history are interesting to me, but they are just the tip of the iceberg as far as what I love about traveling.  I love having long conversations with new people, trying foods that Andrew Zimner of “Strange Eats” wouldn’t recognize, and spending the day getting lost in a neighborhood (figuratively and literally—I have THE worse sense of direction).

Travel has shaped my life and I’ve been fortunate enough to be able to combine my passion with my profession. Cultural Embrace has allowed me to be a bridge that leads others to discover the world in a purpose-filled and meaningful way. I love talking about issues with people who have different world viewpoints, examining the ways in which our lives are similar and different, and learning from those experiences.  My personal motto has turned in to my company’s slogan…“Discover the Similarities – Share the Differences”.

If traveling is something you are passionate about, and it is on your list of things ‘to do,’ I invite you to contact Cultural Embrace with any questions you have. We are experienced and well-informed on where to go, what to do, and how to do it. We understand that everyone has a different path in life, and that also includes the way you choose to travel.  This is why Cultural Embrace customizes our services to assist you to a unique trip geared toward your interests.  We want each trip to be the experience of a lifetime.

Are you are a student who wants to go on a gap break, earn academic credit, or gain some professional and life skills?  Maybe you’re a professional who wants to experience a native culture beyond guidebooks and panoramic city tours? Perhaps you represent a school or company that is looking for a fun, exciting, and meaningful teambuilding challenge? Cultural Embrace has programs that meet each of those needs and more.  We organize opportunities for individuals and groups to immerse within the local communities they are visiting, through volunteering, interning, working, teaching, taking cultural classes, and traveling abroad. Our programs range from 1-52 weeks in Africa, Asia, Australia/New Zealand, Europe, and Latin America.

Travel opens a window. Are you ready for some fresh air? Discover something new about yourself through a meaningful travel experience. The more we seek, the more we learn about abundance, zest, and adventure…and isn’t that what life should 'be'? 

Cultural Embrace's Got Your Back by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Emlyn's Expressions, Guatemala, Volunteer

“It’s better to give before you receive. And never keep score. If your interactions are ruled by generosity your rewards will follow suit.”

How awesome is that quote? And how much more awesome is it to have met, worked, and traveled with the author of this quote?

I recently had the honor and privilege to host internationally renowned thought leader, consultant, and NY Times best-selling author of “Never Eat Alone” and “Who’s Got Your Back”, Keith Ferrazzi in Guatemala. Keith wanted to go abroad during the holidays, utilizing his vacation to giving back to others. For more info to his Personal Success Wheel, refer to “Who’s Got Your Back.”

I take pride in Cultural Embrace’s personalized attention and service to all our participants, but I knew this placement would be different, and wanted to personally oversee the trip. After spending one day with Keith, I’m not sure who was ‘guiding’ who? My friends often refer me as a ‘connector,’ and being in the travel and service industry, the need to build and maintain relationships is a no brainer. But watching and listening to Keith develop, form and strengthen relationships so eloquently and easily was an art form (even with the language barrier).

Unfortunately, Keith’s trip was short, yet sweet and impactful. We visited three local orphanages and community centers, and a village that lost funding for 7 pre-selected students to attend a private middle school in Antigua. With Keith’s generosity (for his time, heart, and donations), words of wisdom and support, I could immediately sense hope, drive, and motivation in the kids, parents, and community.

Cultural Embrace and Ferrazzi Greenlight will be working together to raise funds, awareness, and provide experiences for foreigners to travel to Guatemala (and beyond). Cultural Embrace will be working alongside the local community, to provide them with guidance and support. We will facilitate a mutually agreed upon plan to: encourage education, promote gender equality, end hunger, inprove access to water and sanitation, while holding the village members accountable for their actions (ie: population control, pollution, littering, health, etc).
   
I have plenty more to share, but I know I cannot do it all in one blog. I have big plans and visions…it’s the Aquarius in me…yet I also have to realistically understand that things aren't going to happen overnight. Through Cultural Embrace's operations and service to send individuals and groups abroad to integrate within a community and seek a purpose-filled adventure; Keith Ferrazzi's dedication and relationship-connection; and your support and wanderlust...we plan to help the village members of Guatemala to eat together, as a stronger and healthier community and, of course...never alone!

For more about Keith Ferrazzi's service trip to Guatemala, click here.
To donate to Cultural Embrace & Ferrazzi Greenlight's Guatemala projects, click here. 

"Silent Night" on Christmas, Guatemala Style by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Emlyn's Expressions, Guatemala, Volunteer

Feliz Navidad desde Guatemala! I’m currently curled up in bed, on a chilly Christmas morning in Antigua, listening to one of my favorite classic Christmas song, “Silent Night,” and thought this would be a perfect theme for a blog. I’m celebrating my first Guatemalan Christmas, which began last night.

Guatemala is a Christian dominated country, with ~50-60% Catholics and ~40% Protestants, so Christmas is celebrated throughout the nation. Although it doesn't feel like Christmas, without the "White Christmas” that most of you in North America are experiencing, I have been reminded of Christmas through the singing lights, daily evening processions around town, Santas that walk around Parque Centrale, and…the bombas!

Families, particularly the kids, light firecrackers and firework to celebrate the holiday season (I’m still trying to figure out what day it starts, but more importantly, when it will end!) I thought I was a veteran with pyromaniacs setting off loud and fearsome firecrackers during my travels in China during Lunar New Year 1997, but last night’s Christmas Eve in Guatemala 2009 topped the charts.

Most businesses close early on Christmas Eve and all day on Christmas, so employees are able to spend the holidays with their friends and families, while churches offer several services throughout the day and night. I thought it was going to be a 'silent' and mellow night being away from home and family, so I joined my new foreign friends as we wandered around town, found the sparse restaurants, bars and cafes that were open, and attended a 10pm mass at the main Cathedral.

It was a beautiful service, even though we couldn’t understand 98% of it, due to language barrier and unfamiliarity of Catholicism, but the spirit of the mass, people, and the occasion filled the overflowing cathedral. After church service, we ended up walking around a park that still had street vendors, and enjoyed their poncho--a hot drink, that is traditionally made and served at Christmas. It is filled with all different types of fruit (pineapple, coconut, papaya, apples, grapes, oranges, plums, etc) cooked and simmered for several hours to bring a natural and delicious sweet and fruity taste. Guatemalans often spike it with rum to make a delicious Christmas cocktail.

We were sitting on a park bench, talking about life and solving world’s problems, when suddenly every street was filled with torpedo sounding, fireworks spraying, bee buzzin’, bomba blasting away! It was midnight and that’s when everyone lit firecrackers together… and that was just the beginning of their celebration! Midnight is when the families get together, eat a festive meal (usually tamales, ham, and lots of other yummy goodness), open their presents, sing, dance, and celebrate the birth of Jesus!

The streets and town were filled with clouds of smoke from the firecrackers, and I could hear cheers, music, and laughter. Although it may have been the antithesis of a “Silent Night,” but definitely a MERRY Christmas!!

I wish this blog finds you with a day full of peace, love, happiness, generosity, kindness and goodwill.

PS: While typing this blog up, the streets of Antigua were filled with yet another set of bomba blasts! It's noon...so let the festivities begin each time both hands reaches to the top of the clock!! :-D  

Danny Zucco meets Billy Blanks by CE Founder Emlyn Lee

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Emlyn's Expressions, Guatemala, Volunteer

My friends and staff often say that I work too much...which is probably true, but I love what I do, so I hardly consider it ‘work’…I mean, working in Antigua, Guatemala for a month, isn’t too shabby, huh? But I try to balance my mind, body, and spirit by reading, exercising, and embracing my faith. For me, there is nothing better to end a day than with a good workout. It gives me time to process the day, and relieves some of the ‘unforeseen fires’ that happens in an international service-industry. Plus, the calories inhaled from the boxes of Wheat Thins, bags of Twizzlers, and cans of cashews that I snack on at my desk needs to be burned. Today is no different, and I would like to share how I 'unwind' at the gym in Antigua.

There are two gyms in Antigua city. I joined La Fabrica, just two blocks from my apartment, and it reminds me of the ‘old school’ boxing gyms. Second hand Lifecycle equipments, rusted free weights, and some other ropey-hung apparatus that I’m too afraid to know. There was a salsa dance class in session when I got there. Even though it was a principiantes (beginners) class, it seemed A LOT harder than my best Shakira shimmy efforts could EVER handle. So, I got on the elliptical, pressed some buttons that I couldn’t understand, and trotted along. From across the room, I noticed this middle-aged professional lady scrambling in to the gym. She apparently was having a Manic Monday, and late for the salsa class. I noticed her not only because of her frazzled state, but because she was wearing 3-inch stiletto heels! I don’t understand how she is able to walk in them on leveled floor, let alone on Antigua’s cobble-stoned streets. But then, she rushed in to the exercise group room, stepped in line, and joined the class, not missing a single beat…business attire, stiletto heels, and all!

After about an hour, I was wrapping up my workout, and in came a local guy, wearing Ivan Lendl replicated wristbands, hair greased back similar to Danny Zucco of Grease, and parachute pants that MC Hammer could never touch. I HAD to stay and see what this class was all about. I asked the customer service rep behind the gated front desk what class was next, and he said, “Tae Bo!”

Pinch me!! Boxing was one of my favorite workouts back in Austin, until I tore some cartilage this past summer, and Tae Bo…seriously?!?! Billy Blanks was my best friend in the late nineties, and worked out to his VHS tapes daily! It was meant to be…my first Guatemalan group exercise class…with Rico Suave serving as the Guatemalan Billy Blanks.

In the beginning, I was guarding my left knee and trying to be careful on it, but once you got salsa and merengue music blaring at the loudest volume (unfortunately the louder the better in Guate...), and Guatemalan Billy shouting “mas rapido”, I was flailing my legs and arms just trying to keep up.  I recall Billy Blank’s “double time,” but here, the pace seemed to be at quadruple speed. The music was so fast it sounded like the Chipmunks on steroids.

Low and behold, I survived my first Guatemalan group exercise class. I hobbled back home, not sure if it was because my knee is inflamed, or the difficulties of walking on the cobble-stoned streets (plus without street lights), but then I thought of that lady, and how she mastered walking on the streets, and taking salsa class in those heels. We’ll see if I am able ‘shake a bon bon’ in the salsa class (with Nikes on) at my next gym visit… 

Spirit of Adventure by Emlyn Lee

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Yesterday was one of those perfect ‘do nothing’ days, that we rarely allow ourselves to encounter in our busy lifestyle. I just returned back to Austin after being on the road promoting Cultural Embrace for most of the fall season. I was actually content with the chilly, dreary, rainy weather in Austin, as it gave me an excuse to stay wrapped up in blankets in bed or on my couch, sipping Green tea and hot cocoa, and catching up with the piles of mail, magazines, and books that I have neglected for three months--yes, even on a Saturday, UT home game night, before a holiday work week.

It was a perfect day. I read articles from Oprah magazine, salivated over Food & Wine’s holiday menus and recipes, dog-eared pages from various travel and industry trade magazines for further research, and admired the physique and tips from trainers of fitness and health magazines (while dipping my hand in the cookie jar…duh!) By early evening, I mustered the cold, wet weather to do some necessary errands. Actually, I would have preferred to stay put as a hermit crab, but I left my tube of Crest in the last hotel I stayed at, so toothpaste was definitely a necessity! Waiting in the checkout line, a little boy was with his mother, and pointing at the video “Up” advertised at the RedBox video rental stand. He was hopping up and down like a wind-up toy, repeatedly shouting “Mami, podemos ver el video ‘Up’”. His excitement was contagious, so I went over to the Redbox stand, and rented the movie.

Surprisngly, it was one of THE best movies that I have ever seen and touched me so much, that I want to write about it. Pixar does it again, with a beautiful, uplifting, witty story that addresses the spirit of adventure, love, dreams, friendships, child-elderly bond, animal welfare, relationships, and heroes. Not to give away the full story, but here's a quick summary of the storyline, and why you must watch it: 78-years old Carl Fredrickson ties thousands of balloons to his house to set off on a journey to fulfill his (and his departed wife, Ellie) lifelong dream to live by Paradise Falls in South America. After lift off, he discovers that an 8-years old boy, named Russell, who is trying to earn an ‘assisting the elderly’ badge to graduate from his Wilderness Troop was stowed away in his home. The two form an unique friendship and relationship as they embark in an adventure, while meeting jungle birds, talking dogs, and an evil villain.  

Which character do you think best resembles you? Or maybe you have a combination of them? Perhaps you are an Elliethat seeks adventure; or a Carlthat is determined by love and honor to live out his and his late wife’s dream; or Russell, who lives life through care and assistance; or Dugwho is loyal to a ‘master’ that he entrusts; or Kevinthat is passionate for chocolate and family?

I believe there are "Up" character traits in each of us. While Pixar does an amazing job animating life and providing us entertainment (no matter what age you are), Cultural Embrace is here to be your helium tank. We will fill the balloons necessary for you to go on a safe and exhilarating journey. We will provide pre-departure and English-speaking local support, to take the weight off of your shoulders, and alleviate the stress and struggles to reach your dream, passion, and quest to reach the “Spirit of Adventure”.

Although I cherish my rare ‘do nothing’ days, it only took 1-1/2 hours watching this DVD to rejuvenate my spirit and energy. So, replicating Ellie’s closing of her scrapbook, “Thanks for the adventure. Now go have a new one.” Love, Emlyn 

Life, Liberty & the Pursuit of Happiness by Emlyn Lee

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China, Emlyn's Expressions, Teach

Last night I watched a film called, “Happiness Is” created by local Austin filmmaker, Andrew Shapter.  It resonated so strongly within me, that I wanted to spread the word in hopes that others will see and enjoy the film as much as I did. The premise of the movie is defining happiness, measuring it, and knowing when we’ve reached it.  
 
This film reminded me of what my mission statement is, not just forCultural Embrace, but for me personally, as well. I believe that traveling is a reciprocated flow of communication and interaction between people...the more you seek, the more you learn.

This brings me back to my first international experience. I had just graduated from the University of Maryland-College Park with a communications degree. I didn't know what I wanted to do with my life. I had a good job, but wearing a business suit and sitting behind a desk sucked the life out of me in just seven months; I wasn't ready for graduate school; and the Peace Corps application seemed too long and unsettling to not know where I was going to be placed for two years. So I faxed (yes, um, this was before the internet and e-mail) my resume to relatives that lived in China. The next thing I know, in February, 1995, I boarded a plane and flew across the globe to teach at Wuhan Iron & Steel University. I wasn't sure what I had gotten myself in to—my Mandarin Chinese skills were poor, if not pathetic, the air was polluted, and the streets were overpopulated and noisy. I earned less than US$120 per month, which was double the local teacher’s salary, and enough for me to live comfortably and travel extensively in SE Asia for 2 years. I shared a basic 3-bedroom apartment with two other foreign English teachers, on the seventh floor (without elevators). Even though I had 'downgraded' my lifestyle, I felt more ‘uplifted’ about my life. 

I was supposed to be the teacher giving instructions on grammar and pronunciation, yet I felt like I was learning and taking in so much more during my experience abroad. There was one class lesson in particular that I will never forget. I wrote “What do you want to do after you graduate?" on the chalkboard, anticipating a lively open discussion with my students. Many of them stared blankly at me and responded that they would go back to their home city and work at their local factories. I was shocked at their ignorance for not wanting more out of their lives…but then I realized I was the ignorant one.

China has a 'hukou' system, or residential permit, that binds a person to their home town. This isn’t necessarily where you were born, or where you went to school, or where you worked, but where your family is from. For example, if a child was born in Beijing, if his parents have a hukou of a village, the child is registered back to the village. Although it is not as important as it was before, it is still pretty significant. It affects where you can study, work, get medical, social insurance, and other benefits. It does not allow people to relocate very easily, therefore limiting choices and possibilities. I finally realized how fortunate I was to have so many opportunities and freedom to do such simple things that I took for granted—like relocating to different cities, having electricity and potable water every day, choosing my major, and so much more.

After that class, I wondered how my life would have been if I was born and raised in China, instead of being an American-born-Chinese. Unlike most of my students, I got to select the school, city, and major that I wanted to study. In fact, I chose not to choose a major, and was ‘undecided’ for five semesters. I am a prime example of the “restless American” that was referred to in “Happiness Is.” I’ve gallivanted around the globe to teach, work, volunteer, take cultural classes, sight-see, relax and explore. Is my restless energy due to the pursuit of happiness? I guess so!?! To me, the world and my passport are my life lines, and getting on a plane reminds me of my liberties. All of the amazing people, sites, foods, culture, and communities that I encounter bring me happiness. And what brings me even more joy is when I am able to teach and share my experiences and knowledge about travel to other people, so they can learn, take it in, and embrace their own experiences and fond memories. 

So, is my pursuit of happiness going to be the same as your pursuit of happiness? Maybe.  What makes me happy may be different than what you define as happy. But if you find joy in learning about other cultures, I and my staff at Cultural Embrace are here to alleviate the stress and energy that affects your pursuit of happiness when you travel abroad. We give you personalized attention before you embark on your international journey, and once you are abroad our English-speaking local coordinators will ensure that you are having a safe, healthy, and comfortable time. So feel free to contact us when you need guidance and assistance on all your logistical details for your next journey. Embrace your life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, as you embrace other cultures